now age is just a number lead by time and locked up in the primitive brains of mankind.
a man does not become a man along the years, a man becomes a man when he stands up for his words, when he loves a girl honestly and treats her like the lady she is.
and a girl does not become a lady along the years, a girl becomes a lady when she stands up for her words and things she has done.
she does not have to be proud of it, but she should be proud of the fact that she is still standing - defending her rights, and when she loves a man honestly for the man he is.

so be a man and hold her lionking-high while the other boys are still playing.
and let him lift you up while the other girls are letting the boys play with them.